What’s New

It seemed to me that we’re overdue for a general update, so here’s a summary of what’s been happening in our lives:

– Most excitingly, my mom (Tim’s mom, Doreen) arrived today from Canada – the first time any of our parents have seen Kate face-to-face!  She’s staying for almost 4 weeks, and Eden has been keeping her very busy already.  In fact, I believe she’s in her room reading bedtime stories to Eden as I write this; however, Eden keeps saying things like “Wake up Nana!” and “Read!”, so I have a feeling she’s running out of steam…

– Last week I went to the Newfrontiers Pacific Rim leaders conference outside of Sydney (Central Coast, Ettalong Beach).  It was a really worthwhile trip.  I got to meet fellow Christians from Japan, the Philippines, Cambodia, New Zealand, Australia, and maybe another one or two I can’t remember.  There was even another geologist!  Terry Virgo, the founder of the Newfrontiers movement, was the main speaker.  It was cool to meet him, because he’s just so…normal.  On the first morning I showed up to breakfast on time (8am) and it was just me, Terry, and his wife Wendy there, so we all sat together and had a little chat while the others filed in.  There were a bunch of sessions over the 3 days, and I took home a few interesting points:

  • From Exodus 17 – While Moses prayed (had his arms raised), the Israelites were defeating the Amalekites, but when he stopped they began losing.  Surely God could have just made them win, but for some reason he chooses to respond to prayer, even when matters are life-or-death.  We may not understand how or why, but prayer does make a difference and has to be done!
  • Dreaming about the future is fine, and can be useful for motivating oneself, but if it never converts to action then it’s pointless.  When it comes to church life/leadership/activities, sometimes you just need to pick a start pointing and do something tangible, lest your whole life passes you by and nothing gets accomplished.
  • Being around Jesus makes you think you can do crazy things!  When the disciples were on the boat and they saw Jesus walk out to them, Peter called out and said, “If it’s you, tell me to walk out towards you”, and you know the rest of the story.  It’s just funny how he would’ve even thought to do that, but that’s the effect of spending time with a miracle-worker.
  • Church is a family, not a corporation – we need to think of ourselves as brothers and sisters, not just fellow members, and act accordingly.

Anyway, I’m sure these points don’t sound as profound to you as they did to me, having been through the entire sessions they summarise, but perhaps you’ll get a little idea in your head or a small bit of encouragement from them.

– In other news, I’m reading a book by A. W. Tozer at the moment, and that guy does not beat around the bush.  He’s intense, quite scathing really of the church and its lukewarmness/conformity.  I may have more to say once I’ve finished.

– My absence from Facebook has been going fine.  I have definitely been enjoying the extra bits of time here and there, now that I’m not reverting to reading my news feed.  Sometimes I read a book, sometimes I pray or reflect on various thoughts or events from the day, sometimes I just hold my head up and look out at the world and the people around me; it’s beautiful, this world and this country.

– Other news:

  • Kate’s turning 1 year old in a couple of weeks
  • I’m returning to a Fly-in, fly-out (FIFO) roster on the 20th of March, on a 10 days away 11 days home (4 of which will be in the Perth office) roster
  • I’ve decided to start learning a programming language, probably starting with C# or Python at codeacademy.com

So, that’s life for now.  How are you doing?  It’s funny, being off Facebook I don’t really get those glimpses into your lives any more, so please keep in touch and leave comments 😀

A la prochaine!


Farewell to Facebook

I could write this post so many different ways and with so many different reasons, but I’ve decided to write it tonight, so you’re getting tonight’s version – such is the nature of blogging.

I remember Kathryn calling me one day while I was a student working at IOC, back in 2006.  She said I should sign up for something called Facebook, and that most of our friends were already on it.  After describing it to me – “a website where you can share photos and post your thoughts and stuff” – I thought it sounded… bizarre.  But she was insistent that I sign up, so I went along with it.

Shortly after opening my account I had friend invitations from various people I’d known throughout my youth, including a fair number of high school acquaintances that I’m sure wouldn’t have considered me a real-life friend.  I accepted most of them anyway, but in the early days I remained wary of Facebook and its purposes.  Over the years I guess I’ve adapted to the idea of displaying my life pseudo-publicly online, given the fact that I am reasonably active on Facebook and that I write this blog.  I’ve done a couple of small friend culls, but I would say I’m no longer wary.

When I mentioned the other day that I’d be getting rid of Facebook in the near future, one of my colleagues jokingly asked what Mark Zuckerberg had done to me.  There’s really nothing he’s done to me, and I haven’t got anything against him or Facebook.  I don’t feel like he’s invaded my privacy, even though he certainly has (with my consent, of course).  Nah, it’s not because of online security or privacy concerns that I’ve decided to ditch Facebook; it’s more about math.

I love math.  It has such an elegant, straightforward way of speaking truth.  The other day I was thinking to myself that I probably spend about half an hour to 45 minutes on Facebook every day, once you add up bits here and there.  Taking the lower end of the spectrum, that would add up to about 15 hours a month, or one full day per month of waking time.  It’s not an insane amount, if it weren’t for a couple of factors:

1) I don’t actually like spending time on Facebook.  When it comes down to it, I just don’t like it.

2) There are a number of things I really want to do (writing/recording music, a whole foods course Kathryn paid for a long time ago, writing on this blog, etc.) that I currently feel like I don’t have enough time for

3) Going on Facebook is easier than doing those other things, and more entertaining, in a shallow, visually stimulating kind of way.  As long as it’s there, I know I’ll keep reverting to it in my free time.

I know a lot of people have scaled back their friend lists and found it resulted in a more positive Facebook experience, but I don’t think that would resolve the issue for me.  As long as I have Facebook, I’m going to keep wasting time on it, and it’s not really a matter of wasting time on people I like more or like less, or whose opinions I agree with more or less, or who complain more or less.

I’m not withdrawing and becoming a social media recluse (yet), I’m just jumping the Facebook ship.  I did the same thing with Twitter a few months ago and it’s been a relief.  There have probably been about 2 moments when I kind of wanted Twitter back, but mostly it’s been nice not to have that extra task to keep up with/be distracted by.  Admittedly, Twitter was worse than Facebook; I don’t have to pretend I’m interested in Facebook at all, I genuinely am.  Twitter was always forced for me, whereas Facebook comes more naturally.  But it’s just too easy, and it doesn’t pay off.

One phrase I live by, which I can’t attribute to any particular source and probably isn’t eloquent enough to bother attributing, is the following:

‘Anything of value takes work’

And what I’ve determined is that Facebook produces no value for me.  It takes no work, and nothing good comes out of it, other than fleeting moments of amusement.  I’ve still got thoughts to flesh out and I like to share them, and I’ll do so via this blog.  Go to the homepage and click the follow button if you want to keep up with my thoughts and life.  If you think you’ll miss interacting with me, leave a comment every now and then.  I’m also going to stick with LinkedIn, precisely because it bores me yet allows me to retain some connection to other professionals and friends I’ve worked with.  I’m not interested in cruising around on the LinkedIn app or going to the website, but if I want to find a job someday or ask a question to an old colleague, it should be easier to do.

Another factor to consider is that Kathryn will be keeping Facebook, so I’m not losing touch with family or close friends by leaving it behind.

So after seven years, farewell Facebook.  I’ll give it a couple of days so people see my status linking to this blog post, and then I’m flicking the switch.  It’s been fun, but I don’t need you any more.